I wasn’t that selfless. I refused to give up my oldest child for adoption because I couldn’t bear the thought of not seeing my child growing up. College was forgone, I worked hard, money was tight but my child became a wonderful adult. Like Essie, I often wonder if I did the right thing (I often wonder about being financially comfortable if I had that degree or if my child should have had a a more secure childhood).

You, Marie, have done something selfless and have made a difference in the lives of others. It takes a courageous person to endure what you did despite the pain and regret. God bless you.

I think this degrades women, frankly.